The Amazing Power of Deliberate Intent

If you are not living your dream life and in your dream job, you can start realigning your thoughts to feel more positive to draw more positive experiences into your life as your change your thoughts from a negative vibe to a positive vibe. Here are three concepts to consider:

Annoying Co-Worker

Contrasting Co-Worker Situation: I share an office with someone whom I can hardly stand to be around. She doesn’t have a nice thing to say about much of anything and she wants to talk all the time. She doesn’t enjoy her job, and she treats me like I’m foolish when I want to do my work. I wish she’d either quit or get fired. Life is too short to have to spend so much time with someone so unpleasant. Here’s how you feel about this situation right now:  

Resulting Desires: I want to work with people who are nice to be around. I want to feel good when I'm at work.

 

 

Your Present Resulting Emotions again are: I feel irritation, I feel blame, I feel anger.

To change how you feel about the situation by your deliberate effort to change your thoughts to align with your desire (as written above) here are some new thoughts to think:

• I’ve learned to really focus when I’m at work.
• Because I’m really focussing, I’m getting a lot of work done
• I don’t know what is really bothering her
• She does have a nice smile
• I’m sure that she’d like to feel better at work to

Your Result – is that you are now thinking thoughts that make you feel better and consequently you draw into your life more positive experiences.

 

Not working in a job you enjoy!

Contrasting Job Situation:  I get paid pretty well, compared to other jobs around but I don’t look forward to going to work. I’ve been doing pretty much the same thing for a long time and I don’t feel stimulated at all. No-one seems to notice what I do unless I make a mistake. The day goes by so slowly and then I have to turn around and do it all again the next day

Resulting Desires: I want more exciting, stimulating work. I want to look forward to going to work. I want to feel eager about my job.

Your Present Resulting Emotions (from above): I feel boredom, I feel pessimism.

To change how you feel about the situation by your deliberate effort to change your thoughts to align with your desire (as written above) here are some new thoughts to think:

• When I did into a task I can enjoy it.
• Some things I enjoy more than others.
• Sometimes I make fun games out of tasks.
• I enjoy improving my method of accomplishing tasks.
• I think I’ll try that regarding more of my tasks.
• I’m going to watch for way I can be of value.

Your Result – is that you are now thinking thoughts that make you feel better and consequently you draw into your life more positive experiences.

 

Not working in the dream career yet!

Contrasting Co-Worker Situation: I’ve wanted to be an actress ever since I was a little girl.

I took some classes and found out that I’m pretty good at it. I get some acting work from time to time, but nothing exciting, and nothing that I really want. It’s hard. There are so many people applying for the same work that I am, that it seems hopeless. Maybe I should just forget about it and go get a real job. I feel disappointed, I feel discouraged.

Resulting Desires: I want to get some great acting jobs. I want a job where I’ll be recognised as a good actress. I want to get some jobs that will lead to more jobs.

Your Present Resulting Emotions (from above): I feel disappointed, I feel discouraged.

To change how you feel about the situation by your deliberate effort to change your thoughts to align with your desire (as written above) here are some new thoughts to think:

• I’m getting some acting work
• I’m gathering experiences
• I’m getting clearer about the work I really want
• I do get to meet really interesting people.
• I’ve come a long way
• I’ve had some really good auditions.
• I love the feeling of a really good audition.

Resulting Desires: I want to get some great acting jobs. I want a job where I’ll be recognised as a good actress. I want to get some jobs that will lead to more jobs.

 

Thanks for this concepts from the book:

The Amazing Power of Deliberate Intent

 Esther and Jerry Hicks (The Teachings of Abraham)

My job - Just Be Me!

Those who try to be everything to everybody... fail themselves first and then those people they are trying so hard to please.

Be true to WHO you are and enjoy BEING you.

Always work towards improving the very special 'you' that you are; make changes that are in line with 'who' you are and get rid of the bits the bring you down. You are uniquely and wonderfully made-

 

Don't make changes for the sake of pleasing other people- this is a lie and can only be maintained for a period of time before you start to crack under the pressure.

Life can be fun! Life can be EXCITING! Life is designed bring and give JOY with each day that passes- no matter the circumstance!

If you are creating a life that goes against your true self... life won't be fun, free and light hearted. It will be hard work. And it will show.

Get out and enjoy your life. Make the most of the person you are and the person you were designed to be.

 

 Its OK if not EVERYONE likes you or agrees with you!! We are ALL different, have have our own opinions!! And thank goodness for that!!!

Tips & Quotes to Help Your Success

TIPS

In your quest for success negativity is rife.  It’s in the newspapers on television and in the media.  Keeping positive amongst all this negatively is a challenge.  I suggest you become selective with your time.  Here are a few tips.

1          Seek out the positive people, join clubs where people are achieving and learning.

 

My new mastermind group that took me to Sandra's Restaurant

2          Read positive books. Bookshops are full of great books, if you can’t afford them,    borrow them from friends, or join the local library.

3          Listen and read about positive stories. In the newspapers, magazines, television, only read and listen to success stories where people are helping and achieving.

 

My new friends outside Sandra's Restaurant in Texas

4          Read positive quotes. Listed below are a few I’ve collected. Subscribe to my weekly quote from my website.

 

QUOTES

Dreams are the stuff that make life worth living. Giving them up you give up all that truly matters.    Anon

 
Failure will never hurt you, but fear of failure may kill you.    John Lennon

People are like rubber bands.  They have on thing in common.  They both need to be stretched to perform.  Terence O’Hano

Remember it’s OK to get what you want in life.  Anon

 

Inside Sandra Bullocks restaurant with course members...

I had Gumbo (spicy fish soup) and deep fried Artichokes....Both delicious and 'Texan'.

The power is within you.    Anon

Wanting comes first, getting comes second.    Anon

 

FIRST I wanted to give Joe a book and get a photo...

SECOND - I did it!

The worst possible thing you can do is worry about what you could have done.  Lichtenberg

It is not because things are difficult that we do not dare: It is because we do not dare that they are difficult.  Seneca

 

With Dr Joe Vitale and his new book At Zero. Attendees got a copy before his global launch.

 

 

Sharing the Self Esteem Test at Joe Vitale's Attract Money Live event in Texas.

 

How to Improve your own and others Workplace Attitudes

 

1        It makes people happier.  Worldwide research has shown that when you are optimistic about life you are happier. You appreciate life through nature, your friends, associates, home and are happy to give back.

2        People live longer. As ‘feel good’ endorphins flow through your body, you are ridding your body of stress which is one of life’s killer diseases, therefore you are living to a riper old age.

3    People enjoy working with you more. Human nature is that we want to feel good, unfortunately many people don’t know how. The positive people with positive energy  are attract other likeminded people to think and act the same way.

 

4    You have more fun. Laughing is one of life’s free gifts that puts a smile on your face and jelly in your belly. As you go looking for fun it finds its way to you as people share jokes and you look on the bright side of life.

 

5    You don’t grumble when things go wrong instead try to fix it. Positive thinking has you   overcoming works hurdles quicker. Business is about solving problems. If you grin away at work you’ll get stuck in a downward spiral whereas if you sharpen your thoughts you will search for solutions. 

 

6    You quickly look for a positive action and achieve more. You way of thinking is that        solutions are just around the corner and you look for an answer to you workplace            challenges.

 

7    You have a higher productivity level. You know that once you’ve knuckled down to         achieve a goal you will feel good and your positive attitude and solution focussed thinking has you finishing your goals and searching for another.

 

8        You feel good.  Your work is an alignment of you to your desires. If you are in your dream career you will be enjoying your life work, helping others, creating, leading or engaged in some technical operation. If you love what you do, you automatically feel good.

9        YOU GET RESULTS because your enthusiasm and your thinking drives you to want to strive for more.

How to Move from Fear to Faith - Wikipedia's definitions

 

Wikipedia's Abridged Definitions

      

FEAR

Fear is an emotion induced by a perceived threat. It is a basic survival mechanism responding to pain or the threat of danger.

Fear is the ability to recognize danger, flee from it (also known as the fight-or-flight response) or  freeze or paralysis response is possible.

Fear is frequently related to the specific behaviors of escape and avoidance.

Fear almost always relates to future events, such as worsening of a situation.

Fear can also be an instant reaction to something presently happening.

Most common fears: According to surveys, some of the most common fears are of ghosts, the existence of evil powers, cockroaches, spiders, snakes, heights, water, enclosed spaces, tunnels, bridges, needles, social rejection, failure, examinations and public speaking.

Causes: People develop specific fears as a result of learning. This has been studied in psychology as fear conditioning.

Brain: There are studies looking at areas of the brain that are affected in relation to fear. When looking at these areas (amygdala), it was proposed that a person learns to fear regardless of whether they themselves have experienced trauma, or if they have observed the fear in others.

Creation: Fear is affected by cultural influences and historical experience, especially during childhood

Fear of the Unknown: Something that a lot of people are scared of is the "unknown" such as the hereafter, the next ten years, or even tomorrow.

Many people are too scared to take the path they want to, because of what may lie ahead.

Most people would rather teach things they've been taught than go and do research on something new. This can lead to habits such as procrastination and under achievement.

                                    FAITH 

Informal usage of faith can be quite broad, including trust or belief without proof, and "faith" is often used as a substitute for "hope", "trust" or "belief".

Depending on the religion, faith is belief in a god or gods or in the doctrines or teachings of the religion. Wikipedia lists many religions. (This ebook written from that angle)

 Faith concerns questions which cannot be settled by evidence because it is in the future and not yet occurred.

 

THIS EBOOK FOCUSSES ON FAITH IN SELF, ‘THE UNIVERSE’ GOD, SPIRITUALITY  OR WHATEVER YOU WISH TO CALL A HIGHER POWER ON THE BASIS THAT EVERYONE IS WORKING TOWARDS THE GOOD FOR HUMANITY.

Free Ebook 'How to Move from Fear to Faith' Click Here

 

 

 

 

 

Joe Girard - FROM Humble Beginnings PART 2

The Detroit Free Press can probably be credited with the first insight given to Joe with regard to exceptional progress.

A contest was proclaimed for the solicitation of new readers. The grand prize was to be a new, sparkling two-wheeler bicycle. Now 12 years of age, this driven youngster had never possessed a bike. Joe knew the secret that could win the bike. He would spend every unused, waking moment knocking on doors and asking for business. This had always been his secret. He knew that it worked - what he could not comprehend was why the other newsboys did not see the obvious. Joe won more than the bicycle. He won the knowledge that if he planned his work and worked his plan, he could succeed. He learned that most people were not willing to make this sacrifice. As he once said, "any one of those kids could have beat me, but they weren't willing to work. They didn't want it badly enough."

Joe's teen years were difficult and bitter, especially at home. His natural spirit and pride brought him, time after time, into direct conflict with an increasingly bitter and vengeful father. Almost regularly he ordered Joe from the Gerard home. From the age of 14, Joe spent many of his nights sleeping in boxcars at the Grand Trunk Railroad yards, located directly across the street from his home. In bad weather, he used 25¢ a night flop houses. At this age he was now able to seek more rewarding employment after school, such as dishwasher, dock loader at the produce terminal, delivery boy, and pageboy at the Book-Cadillac Hotel. He also devoted some evenings to the neighborhood pool hall, trying to hustle additional dollars. He lived with the constant fear that if he didn't bring home sufficient money he would have to face his father's anger.
Formal education for Joe ended during the eleventh grade.

He was talking during a study period and was addressed by the school principal, but not by his name. Well aware of the existence of bigotry, but not willing to bow to it, Joe advised the man that he would not respond until he was called by his proper name. The principal stated "you people don't seem to understand how society will be run" and then called Joe a derogatory name reflecting upon his Sicilian ancestry. Joe's heated reaction resulted in his permanent dismissal from school.

At the age of 16, Joe obtained full-time employment at the Michigan Stove Company as a stove assembler. He earned $75 weekly, his greatest earnings thus far, even though it required 12-hour days, six days a week.

He then went to work as an assistant to a fruit and vegetable vendor who merchandised his goods on the east side of Detroit from the back of a truck. He enjoyed the outdoor work and was proud of his sales ability, but he realized one day that there was no future in this pursuit.
Dispirited and aimless, Joe joined the United States Army Infantry at the age of 18. Ninety seven days later, at Fort Knox, Kentucky, Joe fell from the rear of a speeding military vehicle and badly injured his back. He was given an honorable discharge after admitting to previously injuring his back diving for the school swimming team.

During the next two years, Joe would move from one unsatisfactory job to another, constantly frustrated with the belief that his lack of education kept him from all but manual labor.
He was often discouraged, but never gave up hope. He felt that somewhere in the world there was a place for him. He had the good fortune to meet Mr. Abraham Saperstein, a building contractor. Mr. Saperstein, a warm, generous, and understanding man, became his father surrogate when he invited Joe to enter the building business with the pledge that he would teach Joe everything he knew. He'd finally found his niche in life. The relationship between Joe and Mr. Saperstein grew over the years until his dear old friend retired and turned over the business to Joe.
Joe contracted to build a number of private homes in a Detroit subdivision. He accepted the word of a real estate speculator that the area was to have a sewer system installed, but this was not true. Individual septic tanks would have to be installed, greatly reducing the value of the homes. As a result, Joe lost his business. Joe Girard found himself without a job, without savings, and in debt to the tune of $60,000. It was the lowest moment in his life.

The next year Joe would find himself in an endless struggle trying to recover his losses and his ego. Things would finally hit rock bottom when June Girard tearfully told her husband that there was no food in the house and that their kids were begging for something to eat.

Joe had been job hunting without success, but on that day he pleaded with the sales manager of a Chevrolet dealership to hire him as a salesman. The manager was reluctant because of his lack of experience and traditionally slow sales in the month of January, but Joe stated that he would only take a desk somewhere in the rear of the dealership and count on the telephone to provide prospects. That evening he sold his first car and borrowed $10 from the manager to bring a bag of groceries home to his family. In his second month he would sell eighteen cars and trucks and was beginning to feel he had a secure breath. Much to his amazement, the owner of the dealership fired him for being too aggressive. Some of the other salesmen had complained.